The Most Concerning Red Flag in Kristi Noem’s Marriage, According to Our Relationship Coach

Everyone knows that communication is a great tool to have and hone in marriages, but relationship coach Anthony Recenello believes it’s non-negotiable if Kristi and Bryon Noem want to stay together. “To make it long term, the couple would need to prioritize radical honesty and open communication,” he says. “They should create a safe space to discuss not just the rumors, but also the emotional toll of public life.” While conversations like these can be difficult, one simple way to improve communication in a relationship is by listening without judgment and refusing to make assumptions — two habits that could go a long way for the Noems.

Recenello also emphasizes the need to reaffirm their commitment to each other, both privately and publicly. Private reaffirmations help rebuild emotional intimacy, while public ones show unity, something their marriage currently seems to lack.

Above all, Recenello stresses the importance of getting professional help. “Seeking professional support, like couples counseling, can also help them process these challenges in a healthy, constructive way,” he explains. The first step is understanding the different types of marriage counseling and then picking a therapist who fits their needs. Recenello believes that this will help them preserve their trust and emotional safety. “If they can nurture those qualities despite external pressures, they’ll give themselves the best chance at long-term success.”